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There are three areas in which many are influenced by outward appearances: race or ethnicity, economic situation, and age. It is important for us to try to see others through God’s impartial eyes! (Acts 10:34, 35)​[excerpted w 18.08, pp.8-12]

Jesus’ teachings help overcome prejudices…

How did Jesus’ teachings help people conquer prejudice?

Many Jews in Jesus’ time had prejudices. Christ stressed the need for humility and condemned racial pride. He urged his followers to view one another as brothers.​—[excerpted w 18.06, pp.9-10]

Personally, being taught since infancy of a brotherhood/sisterhood of global humankind through Bible education… my parents’ close family friends came from all races/cultures/various languages…as well as actively cultivating “humility” or attempting to since youth onward…helps me appreciate/respect/agape-love my fellow-humans. 🙂 Viewing Others as SUPERIOR  to me while realistically aware of my own limitations/weaknesses…keeps the peace.

Also, the attitude of : Everyone has a skill/gift from which to learn…i just chose the more spiritual skills/life lessons which interest me the most. Yeah, i may want to build a cell phone, however, to me…what good is a communication device/tool IF You have no one/(have not built a relationship) with which to lovingly/peacefully communicate…or IF there is no one with which to talk kindly…


You just talk to yourself!:)…but do you get a “truthful” answer??;)

2/16/19 @ 4:00 p.m.

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is this “a” here we go again?!? 🙂 ha, ha, laugh, laugh,

;)…slightly snarky tone now:
do i have to s-p-e-l-l- the word…a.g.g.r.a.v.a.t..


can’t a girl be “extra”-verted…”talk”-ative..and “friend”-ly by nature…and


QUIET! shhhh! ever so now and again?? NOPE! (she ain’t allowed)

(without Anyone freaking out…like what’s up?!? is everything okay?! is the world coming to an end…well, yeah!, but, thankfully, not at this very second in time…one has time to prepare/change/pray.)

not always ignoring on purpose…”pausing”

all public speakers, (including lawyers)…should know how to utilize the short pause….and the l……………………o…………………..n…………………………g

” i object”

(pauses are a communication tool)

sometimes…(i need time/a second, a minute to meditate & think silently/process stuff/pray and not out LOUD here every minute of my day.)

i need a PAUSE.

before i say or do something regretfully dumb!! (so, may be i need more pauses than You Smarter Reader:))

my tooth hurts, my head hurts, my heart hurts (emotional pain-ing)…not meaning to complain; she’s explaining.

my technology stinks, working from what feels like a dial-up Wifi connection…must be my location. Who knows what’s going on with my site…hacked and labeled “fraud”. Please (People: i am Encouraging Spirituality Here! And Own Thinking and Ancient Wisdom/Bible Study!)

(No, this is an authentic work.) Read through all my blogs, “If” You:) have nothing better to do–decide for Yourself.:)

constant i—n—t—e—r—r—u—p—t—i—o—n—s when writing…which is f.r.u.s.t.r.a.t.i.n.g.

(and exercise in tenacity, patience, forgiveness, and not giving up, among other things, eh?)

Most of my pieces/blogs are super rushed (mostly first drafts with quick edits time permitting) so, due to above and more, i condense write, (discard grammar, creatively spell, etc)….poetry is good (for that)…trying to squeeze MUCH thought in less space/time.

it’s miraculous and THANK YOU JAH!!..any of my blogs are somewhat coherent.

music speaks my silent words…(hopefully!/may be?) and fills in the blanks and hard to reach spots.

“seemingly” every second of my day…

a friend, a family member, a neighbor, a whoever what description they want to use in relation to me…need/want/require something ? small etc. from me.

am VERY happy to give and to share in anyway reasonably possible…(within my conscience constraints, of course)…

i love everyone in my life…probably too much!! My Friends/Fam and their problems are my problems/concerns.


writing when possible…while juggling many balls (badly); plus Others’ balls being whipped at me to catch at random times; quite a work-out.

YA, You got Your problems, too and struggles, and juggles, and sufferings and pains: SORRY!THANKS for taking time to Read/listen to my ranting.

Hoping something, (a blog/music selection/scripture on this site), is encouraging to You:)…


So, IF YOU, DEAR READER:)…wanna take a deep dive into spiritual stuff…i.e. specifically, topic: “today”..return for my next post.



and for letting me


(myself: quiet or loud, and etc.)!


p.s. While actively respecting/agape-loving All-Fellow-Fragile-Life-on-Earth as well as actively trying my “imperfect” best to demonstrate this daily:

i only make/sustain close-alliances/associations-attachments with those who accept-appreciate Yahweh!! It’s one of my protective boundaries. Plus, i am politically neutral. (i operate within my (self-inflicted:) lol conscience prison.)

so are we Friends?!


Y.o.u. t.e.l.l. m.e. 

Hope so!:)

2/15/19 @ 11:44 a.m.

o.k. going to grab some breakfast…late…boiled eggs.


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Thank You:) for Reading …in case it isn’t obvious:

i am NO hula hooper. 😉 lol

(figuratively speaking)

An imperfect observation by me:  i can be “fussy” at times myself…we all have our preferences, and moody/ier days, eh?:)

however…i try to be forgiving and considerate of Others’, their feelings, etc.  and cooperate within a healthy reasonable spectrum…to keep the peace.  And, we all have our limitations and consciences. i know, personally, couldn’t demand/insist on Anyone breaking their conscience in some matter micro or macro…(on my behalf).

We all have our individual thresholds for being comfortable and uncomfortable. I respect that.

Some of us (perhaps sick? unreasonable? fierce? ignorant? too proud?) people are impossible/beyond pleasing; You “kindly” jump through one or two hoops, in good faith, then they unmercilessly require series of hoops and jumps…unending.

gimme a break…”not open to any agreement” is a negative trait interestingly described 2 Timothy 3:1-5: (my highlights)

But know this, that in the last days critical times hard to deal with will be here.  For men will be lovers of themselves, lovers of money, boastful, haughty, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, disloyal,  having no natural affection, not open to any agreement, slanderers, without self-control, fierce, without love of goodness,  betrayers, headstrong, puffed up with pride, lovers of pleasures rather than lovers of God,  having an appearance of godliness but proving false to its power; and from these turn away.

So, just want to encourage any Reader:) do Your Best. Trying to Please (some) People is futile! I am no people pleaser.

I’ve found it much easier and conscience healing to please Yahweh–God of True LOVE…by trying to be forgiving, loving, giving, and genuinely-compassionate to all crossing my path…and not overly-critical, harsh and i.m.p.o.s.s.i.b.l.e. to make comfortable/happy/pleased.

questions for self-reflections:

Am i hard to make comfortable? Do i have unrealistic expectations?

am i hurting so much that i am hurting Others? Am i reasonable in my dealings with Others?

do i show fellow-feeling? and agape love/respect to all my fellow-life?

BTW: this is an honest/TRUTH FULL piece of prose..(my blog/this site) is NOT a work of fiction. i am a LEGIT person, with a LEGIT name, though Joan Winifred…i use as my “pen” name, which is my “actual” first two names given me by my parents, (what were they thinking, eh?:)

I am a female…born. I am a Mother…real since ’99, ’01, ’03, ’05  (4 offspring; 1 boy, 3 girls–vaginal births; married since ’91 to Chato/Father of said offspring). Soon to be 50. I am a legit work in progress. 🙂 Very spiritually minded. My Primary Loyalty Yahweh; meaning i love everyone else less than True God of bible revealed name Yahweh/Jehovah. (My “True” Friends accept this unreservedly about me.) And I Love Humans A VERY LOT!! which try to demonstrate by living genuine-unselfish-compassion everyday toward all life even—when very difficult— involving self-sacrifice and pain!! Favorite Books–Bible.

Learner of Fun and relaxation…and Mandarin among other languages.

Legit: Boring. Not a Quitter. Lover of Truth; Pursuer of Peace and Living Moderation in most things except study and love!:)

may be those are not humble self-descriptions, huh?

anyway trying my best…”hammering” things out…🙂 lol

Encouraging reading today:

He will not judge by what appears to his eyes, nor reprove simply according to what his ears hear. He will judge the lowly with fairness, and with uprightness he will give reproof.​—Isa. 11:3, 4.

Jehovah preserved the Law covenant for us in his Word, the Bible. He wants us, not to obsess over the details of the Law, but to discern and apply its “weightier matters,” the lofty principles that underpin its commandments. (Matt. 23:23) The Mosaic Law reflected a “framework of the knowledge and of the truth” about Jehovah and his righteous principles. (Rom. 2:20) The cities of refuge, for example, teach […] how to “judge with true justice,” and they teach all of us how to “deal with one another in loyal love and mercy.” (Zech. 7:9) [excerpted Imitate Jehovah’s Justice & Mercy w 2017]

2/12/19 @10:26 a.m.

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